How to be more Practical, Realistic, Influential, Successful

1. be aware of what is happenning around you
2. talk to people around you
3. ask questions
4. read news, local news
5. know small details, trivials, prices, figures, names
6. know the names
7. know the month, date, year and current time
8. know the phone numbers, addresses
9. do small things and tasks
10. stay grounded
11. know details about the person- background, education, work, address, family, interests, hobbies
12. know yourself
13. know the costs
14. know the time and duration
15. know the potential problems and obstacles
16. know the wants and needs
17. know the pros and cons
18. know the potential
19. know how to get to the potential
20. be involved in all levels of activity
21. dont be shy, proud, boastful, superficial
22. know the people involved
23. be aware of timings, events
24. be aware of holidays, routines, festivals, policies, facts, figures, routines, days, calendar
25. be aware of plans, itenary, schedules, diary, people
26. be aware of ideas, information, visions, knowledge
27. be aware of people, relations
28. know about products, things, services
29. be aware of skills, habits, education
30. read, read , read
31. repetetion, repetetion, repetetion
32. learn formulas, theories
33. know the basic
34. be logical
35. believe in reasoning
36. understand facts, opinion, judgement, inference
37. believe in "cause and effect"
38. believe that you are responsible for your life, events and destiny
39. believing that your thoughts, actions and habits make your life
40. be organised with information, people, tasks
41. be organised with things
42. know the legal, rules, regulations, law
43. believe in techniques
44. record and organise
45. be objective, purposeful
46. have a mission
47. have a clear vision
48. live in the present and enjoy it
49. have an order and structure to life, work, routine, relationships
50. have a routine
51. learn from mistakes
    
52. learn from experience
53. be reflective
54. be self- disciplined
55. have self-control
56. practice self-restraint
57. have plans and deadlines
58. be open to sharing and discussion
59. self-acceptance
60. organise and plan your events, actions in a diary
61. be methodical
62. have a pattern and orderliness
63. be consistent
64. not be over optimistic
65. staying grounded
66. do cleaning, cooking, administration, housekeeping, washing
67. get out of comfort zones
68. mingling and enjoying
69. doing and enjoying small things
70. believe in effort and hard work
71. believe in time, seasons
72. believe in patience and persistence
73. believe in people and places
74. focusing on wants
75. focusing on strengths and talents
76. focusing on your circle of influence
77. feeling good at all times
78. using positive words and body language
79. thinking and visualising good and positive
80. not feeling inferior in asking for help to anyone
81. false ego and pride is useless
82. being right is not important
83. if you keep beating everyone, proving everyone wrong, having the last laugh then you will be left alone!
84. have solid life long friendships
85. have a doctor and psychologist
86. be frank and open
87. share with family and friends
88. accept things with smile
89. understand that its after all only small stuff
90. live for happiness, not for status, respect, recognition, materialism
91. accept with a good and positive nature
92. understand the nature and weather and seasons
93. imagine
94. slow down
95. relax
96. be involved and absorbed
97. do that makes you happy
98. accept delays, changes, breaks, circumstances, behaviours
99. understand that there are things beyond your control
100. have faith in God and universe
101. dont feel inferior or superior to anyone
102. write down your doubts
103. find out the reason for your doubts
104. share it with a friend or doctor
105. check or read about it on the internet, books
106. just face it!!
107. have good control on your senses- vision, smell, taste, sound, feel
108. focus your senses on the current task
109. know yourself well
110. dont underestimate others, nature, people, situations
111. play to your strengths
     
112. keep a level head
113. stay realistic, stay grounded
114. talk with people, face the facts, ask questions
115. know the economy, costs, finances, operations, processes
116. dont be emotional and touchy
117. stay centred and do what you can
118. stay busy, active, worry free
119. stay focused
120. accept God's plans
121. you cant make everyone happy
122. know how to judge people, events, situations, times, places
123. practice elimination, ignorance, delay, discrimination, deduction, conclusion, judgement
124. be rational and reason
125. know that you are unique and individual