conversation starters, questions, icebreakers, getting to know

what is your email address?
do you have a online chat address?
what is your phone number?
where are you now?
what do you do?
what do you do in free time?
how are you?
what is going on?
whats up?
whats not good yet?
how have you been?
long time no see?
how is life?

where do you hangout?
what do you do for living?
what do you do after work?
what do you do at weekend?

when were you born?
what city were you born in?
what different things did you want to be when you grew up?
what cartoon character did you like best when you were young?
did you have an imaginery friend? how would you describe them?
what was your neighbourhood like when you were younger?
what was your favourite game to play when you were younger?
were you teased by others when you were young? did you tease others?
who was your first best friend?
what was your favourite subject and least favourite subject in school?
did you get an allowance? how did you earn it?
what sports and activities did you participate in?
did you ever hang out with the wrong crowd in the school?
what was your first job? how much did you get paid?
at what age did you hit puberty?
were you an early or late bloomer?
have you kept in touch with your high school sweethearts?
do you like your name? if you could change it what would it be?
how would your parents describe raising you as a child?
how would your mom describe you?
how would you describe your mom?
how would your father describe you?
how would you describe your father?
how would you describe the members of your family?
whats the biggest fight you have had with your family?
which family member are you closest to?
if you could change one things about your family what would it be?
how would your parents describe the perfect mate for you? would you agree with that?
do you keep any secrets from your family?
whats your family most proud of you for?
when is the right time to start a family of yours?
what would your ideal family consist of?
if your children could remember one lesson in life, what would you teach them? how would you teach?
who is your best friend?
whats most common among all your friends?
how often do friends come to you for advice? how often do you go to them for advice?
how would your friends describe the way you act when you get angry?
how would your friends describe the way you act when you are happy?
if friends from high school were to see you now, what would they think?
name on time you fought with a friend? what was the fight about? how did you solve it?
how did you meet the majority of your friends?
whats the nicest thing a friend has done for you? whats the nicest thing you have done for a friend?
which of your friends are you most similar to?
name one thing you would not want your friends to know about? how would they react to it?
do you make new friends easily?
define a good friend? do you consider yourself a good friend?
how do you distinguish between a friend and an acquaintance?
what are your parents occupations?
how did you end up in your current job?
are you paid what you're worth?
what do you base your worth on?
what is the greatest career challenge you have faced and how did you handle it?
how do you forsee your career situation five years from now?
what are your career goals?
how do you plan to achieve your career goals?
is your current position what you thought would be five years ago?
would you make a good boss? why?
whats your ideal job?
do you work better alone or with a team? why is that?
do you work well under pressure?
what makes your job worth getting up for?
who do you use as references? what would they say about you?
do you consider yourself a hard worker? based on what facts?
on average how many hours do you work in a given week?
does your job make you feel proud?
in your life's priorities where does your career fall?
what event in your life would you like to permanently forget?
whats the most regrettable thing you have done to someone?
what is your most embarrassing moment in life?
whats the dumbest argument you have ever had? who started it?
whats the greatest personal challenge you have ever faced? how did it change you?
have you ever got into a physical fight? who started it? why?
whats your worst dream? what is its interpretation?
whats your favourite daydream in recent years?
whats your greatest personal strength? how has it helped you in life?
what personal quality would you like to improve the most?
who has had the greatest positive impact in your life?
what lessons have you learnt the hard way?
do you tend to learn after one mistake or after many mistakes?
think back five years from today? how did you think your life would have been today?
how is it differnet from what you pictured?
what is the life you have pictured five years from now?
what is the life you have pictured one year from now?
what is the life you have pictured ten years from now?
have you ever been arrested? why?
name one things that you are constantly putting off? why?
who do you turn to when you are sad, angry, lonely or upset?
how well do you keep secrets?
has anyone told you look like a celebrity? why?
whats your greatest insecurity?
whats your greatest fear?
do you plan ahead or take one day at a time?
do you consider yourself in shape?
what book do you read?
what was the last movie you saw or rented?
whats your favourite food?
whats your favourite tv show?
whats your favourite place to travel?
whats your favourite sport?
whats your favourite outfit?
how do you relax?
whats your favourite restaurant?
whats your favourite movie of all time?
whats your favourite season? why?
do you tend to focus more on the past, present or the future?
what is your worst habit? how can you stop it?
how often do you balance your checkbook?
whats the first thing you do when you wake up?
what five words would you use to describe yourself? can you give an example of how you possess each charachterstic?
do you tend to blame others for your problems?
do you believe in luck? do you consider yourself to be lucky?
do you fear death?
is comprise hard for you? why?
what talents you have that would surprise me?
how can someone tell if you are happy? how can they tell if you are sad?
what types of people tend to be attracted to you?
whats one thing you cant say NO to?
what do you constantly worry about?
how do you define happiness?
who knows you better than anyone?
who would you die for?
when are you totally at peace?
what setting are you most comfortable in?
how do you deal with stress? what triggers it?
are you pro choice or pro life?
do you consider yourself financially stable?
are you a morning or a night person?
what are your hobbies?
how patient are you? give an example?
do you tend to exaggerate things?
are you a good listener?
how good is your sense of direction?
how often do you compliment people?
how often do you watch sports?
do you act your age?
how gullible are you?
do you keep a diary?
how are your sleeping habits?
in heated arguments do you walk away or keep it until you have the last word?
what do you wear to sleep in?
how often do you read the newspapers or watch the news?
what style of underwear do you wear?
how would you descibe your dream house?
how would you describe your dream wedding?
do you fear committment?
what five words describe your perfect mate?
whats the biggest turn on for you?
whats your most sensitive body part?
how do you define intimacy?
who taught you about the 'birds' and the 'bees'? how old were you?
do you prefer to make the first move or have it made on you?
do you watch porno?
what are your secret desires?
whats the longest you have gone without sex?
how many times you have sex a week?
whats the most sensual thing someone has done to you?
how do you set the mood?
judging from a scale of 1-10 how experienced are you?
what percentage of people do you think are virgins?
when you meet someone first do you wonder what they are like in bed?
what makes you feel sexy?
do you think you are sexy when you naked?