be the last to raise your voice- stop arguing and control anger
be your own adviser, teacher, trainer, guide, director, way-shower, mentor
if you regret something, do it- I wish I had done that, and I will
aim to be the very best at everything you do- not second best
get on with life- its whooshing past- have fun, stay active, do things you wants, strive for your goals, be aggressive and assertive, work hard, play hard, do things that you like and enjoy, stay happy, feel good, think good
dress like today is important
have a sense of humour
get used to stepping outside your comfort zone
have dignity
maintain good manners in all things
prune your stuff frequently
remember to touch base and keep in touch
draw the lines around yourself
its ok to worry or know how not to- learn to relax, manage stress, take actions, solve problems, handle conflicts
stay young
have something in your life that takes you out of yourself
if you cant say anything nice dont say anything at all
RULES FOR RELATIONSHIPS
accept the differences, take what you have in common
allow your partner the space to be themselves
be the first to say sorry
know when to listen and when to act
keep talking
respect privacy
check you both have the same shared goals
treat your partner better than your best friend
RULES FOR FAMILY & FRIENDS
never be too busy for loved ones
give your kids a break
never lend money unless you are prepared to write it off
there are no bad children
be up around people you love
your children need to fall out with you to leave home
your role as a child
your role as a parent
RULES FOR SOCIETY
we are all closer than you think
it doesnot hurt to forgive
it doesnot matter to be helpful
be generous with your time and information
keep the moral high ground
look at the long term ramifications of what you do for a living
be good at your job
WORLD RULES
not everything can be green
put something back
find a new rule everyday- or occasionally at least
take a deep breath- practise everyday for 15 minutes whenever you feel stressed. let the air fill your chest and abdomen and release slowly.
meditate- find a quiet place and sit comfortable and relax. focus on a neutral word. when you get distracted come back to the neutral word, image, symbol, picture.
do some slow stretches- it helps move blood into the boday and oxygen into the brain.
respect your body clock- determine your prime times, and save critical tasks for your high energy periods.
try eating smaller and more frequent meals- this helps maintain blood sugar in the body.avoid fatty foods like icecreams, heavy sauces, sweets.
get more sunlight- this maintains the body clock.
stand up straight- keep your weight in the middle of the body. keep your head over your pelvis, ears over your shoulders and the small of your back forward. if you sit at a computer, your eyes should be with the middle of the screen.
re-examine your sleeping habits- how much sleep is enough for you? see how you feel when you wake up? what time do you goto sleep? what time do you wake up? how do you feel when you get up?
exercise- this reduces tension, drains excess aggression, frustration, improves sleep, helps concentration. this is the best anti worry solution.
breathe- taking a series of deep breaths provided temporary relief.
make connections- connect with family, friends, neighbourhood, organisations, work. be part of something larger than yourself. talk to your neighbours. this increases the feeling of strength and reduce your sense of vulnerability.
talk to God- pray every day. meditate. read religious scriptures.
add strucuture to your life- make lists of tasks to be done. write up a daily schedule. organise things, organise your home, workplace. arrange, order your life to make it easier and simple.
do something that you enjjoy
avoid the news- media loves the news and fills it with upsetting stories, limit its consumption and keep a cap on it.
dont drink excessively- alcohol and drugs cause depression
get physical- find someone you like a lot and hug them. touch people.
get up- disengage from toxic worry the minute you find it wrapping you. do it deliberately. find and talk to a friend. the longer you let a worry last the harder it becomes to escape it.
let music in- sing, listen, play.
ask yourself- what is the use of all this worry?
have a good cry
laugh- humour is one of the best ways of dealing with worry
monitor your automatic thoughts
examine these thoughts for errors in logic and think of alternative hypothesis that are more logical
Ask yourself- what am I basing these conclusions on?
Ask yourself- what can I do to increase the likelihood of a more favourable outcome?
Ask yourseld- is there another point of view that makes sense?
Ask yourself- do you see yourself as a loser or an underachiever?
find out how these automatic thoughts and errors in logic reflect on your life and yourself
get the facts
base worry on reality, not on fantasy
worry is a disease of your thoughts and imagination
worry derives from misreading of reality
learn how to keep things in perspective and see from different points of view, angles, logic, reality, persons
learn how to positively talk to yourself
keep a notepad on your bedside, table, car and write worry, thoughts down and read and sort them next morning
dont sweat the small stuff- after all its all for nothing!!
exercise- this reduces tension, drains excess aggression, frustration, improves sleep, helps concentration. this is the best anti worry solution.
breathe- taking a series of deep breaths provided temporary relief.
make connections- connect with family, friends, neighbourhood, organisations, work. be part of something larger than yourself. talk to your neighbours. this increases the feeling of strength and reduce your sense of vulnerability.
talk to God- pray every day. meditate. read religious scriptures.
add strucuture to your life- make lists of tasks to be done. write up a daily schedule. organise things, organise your home, workplace. arrange, order your life to make it easier and simple.
do something that you enjjoy
avoid the news- media loves the news and fills it with upsetting stories, limit its consumption and keep a cap on it.
dont drink excessively- alcohol and drugs cause depression
get physical- find someone you like a lot and hug them. touch people.
get up- disengage from toxic worry the minute you find it wrapping you. do it deliberately. find and talk to a friend. the longer you let a worry last the harder it becomes to escape it.
let music in- sing, listen, play.
ask yourself- what is the use of all this worry?
have a good cry
laugh- humour is one of the best ways of dealing with worry
monitor your automatic thoughts
examine these thoughts for errors in logic and think of alternative hypothesis that are more logical
Ask yourself- what am I basing these conclusions on?
Ask yourself- what can I do to increase the likelihood of a more favourable outcome?
Ask yourseld- is there another point of view that makes sense?
Ask yourself- do you see yourself as a loser or an underachiever?
find out how these automatic thoughts and errors in logic reflect on your life and yourself
get the facts
base worry on reality, not on fantasy
worry is a disease of your thoughts and imagination
worry derives from misreading of reality
learn how to keep things in perspective and see from different points of view, angles, logic, reality, persons
learn how to positively talk to yourself
keep a notepad on your bedside, table, car and write worry, thoughts down and read and sort them next morning
dont sweat the small stuff- after all its all for nothing!!
ask yourself "value" questions ask yourself "behaviour" questions ask yourself "mission" questions asking yourself better questions will result in better actions and decisions ask yourself positive questions ask yourself sincere questions ask yourself intelligent questions ask yourself smart questions
"why" = purpose "what" = object or the goal "when" = timing, date, hour, routine, schedule, deadline "where" = place "who" = people "how" = steps, processes, actions, approach, technique, style
example questions to ask yourself:
where am I? why am I here? what am I doing? why am I doing this? how can I improve this? what should I do to get to the goal? what do i want to do? what is this feeling? what is this thought? how can i make money on this? how can i make more money? how can i create something out of this? how can i better this? how can i build on this? what do i need to do next? where am i heading? is this the right thing to do? what is not good yet? what is not perfect yet? what is missing? what is wrong? why do i want to do this? why do i want this? why am i going there? what is good for me? what can i learn from this? what are the pros? what are the cons? what is the process behind this? who is involved? whom should i speak to?
how to hedge, manage risks, secure, protect investments, assets, prevent fraud...
manage well delegate well look after and care play the game take good responsibility know the cons know the downsides know the threats know the possibilities and look from different angles and positions know cause and effect know the priority by its importance, urgency, level of effects put in appropriate controls to mitigate work hard and be involved deeply take care of all details and small details day to day operations, routine affairs, people, tasks overall state of affairs motivate, train, coach, teach have an exit plan and strategy protect by fencing and security discriminate, ignore, partiality tactis accomodate tactics look after your pot, plant, investment, people, operations delegate hedge against another instrument hedge with a movable security hedge with references, vouchers have your set of Rules credit check, people check, contacts check, track records check for gossips and air profiling and performance check security spies, informers, messengers double check back track find out third party checks swot checks area checks, neighbourhood, location checks, air, talks involve others market data, research facts and figures worth and value! blueprints small lines, small prints, little details terms and conditions demand and supply block and unblock
life pushes all of us around- learn and move on, learn the lessons. the situation play it safe is good when the fear of losing is greater than fear of winning.
RICH DONT WORK FOR MONEY =rich make money work for them =rich are not slave to money or paying bills =learning to make money work for you is LIFE TIME STUFY =FEAR and IGNORANCE are the main causes =learn to use emotions to think, dont think emotionally
BE FINANCIAL LITERATE & APTITUDE =know the differences between ASSETS & LIABILITIES =buy ASSETS =ASSETS are anything that puts money into the pocket =LIABILITIES are that takes money out of the pocket
MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS =wealth is a person's ability to survive forwards =rich buy ASSETS =middle class buy LIABILITIES that they think are ASSETS =lower class only have EXPENSES
RICH WORK FOR ONLY THEMSELVES
RICH MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS =look after their ASSETS =INVEST, REINVEST, RE-RE-INVEST =find new, more, creative ways to generate income, reveneues and CREATE WEALTH =FOCUS on the ASSET COLUMN =have solid habits, characters, learn to grow, work on personal growth, human relations =mind their own BUSINESS, keep shut, keep quiet and keep their SUCCESS FORUMALAS & SECRETS and RULES to THEMSELVES =have excellent interests, hobbies, people skills, knowledge, learning aptitude
RICH TEND TO BUY LUXURIES LAST =poor and middle class buy their luxuries, designer wear sooner- to look rich and impress others = live well within their means =save and save and save =work hard, hard, hard =focus on the BOTTOMLINE
what is your email address? do you have a online chat address? what is your phone number? where are you now? what do you do? what do you do in free time? how are you? what is going on? whats up? whats not good yet? how have you been? long time no see? how is life?
where do you hangout? what do you do for living? what do you do after work? what do you do at weekend?
when were you born? what city were you born in? what different things did you want to be when you grew up? what cartoon character did you like best when you were young? did you have an imaginery friend? how would you describe them? what was your neighbourhood like when you were younger? what was your favourite game to play when you were younger? were you teased by others when you were young? did you tease others? who was your first best friend? what was your favourite subject and least favourite subject in school? did you get an allowance? how did you earn it? what sports and activities did you participate in? did you ever hang out with the wrong crowd in the school? what was your first job? how much did you get paid? at what age did you hit puberty? were you an early or late bloomer? have you kept in touch with your high school sweethearts? do you like your name? if you could change it what would it be? how would your parents describe raising you as a child? how would your mom describe you? how would you describe your mom? how would your father describe you? how would you describe your father? how would you describe the members of your family? whats the biggest fight you have had with your family? which family member are you closest to? if you could change one things about your family what would it be? how would your parents describe the perfect mate for you? would you agree with that? do you keep any secrets from your family? whats your family most proud of you for? when is the right time to start a family of yours? what would your ideal family consist of? if your children could remember one lesson in life, what would you teach them? how would you teach? who is your best friend? whats most common among all your friends? how often do friends come to you for advice? how often do you go to them for advice? how would your friends describe the way you act when you get angry? how would your friends describe the way you act when you are happy? if friends from high school were to see you now, what would they think? name on time you fought with a friend? what was the fight about? how did you solve it? how did you meet the majority of your friends? whats the nicest thing a friend has done for you? whats the nicest thing you have done for a friend? which of your friends are you most similar to? name one thing you would not want your friends to know about? how would they react to it? do you make new friends easily? define a good friend? do you consider yourself a good friend? how do you distinguish between a friend and an acquaintance? what are your parents occupations? how did you end up in your current job? are you paid what you're worth? what do you base your worth on? what is the greatest career challenge you have faced and how did you handle it? how do you forsee your career situation five years from now? what are your career goals? how do you plan to achieve your career goals? is your current position what you thought would be five years ago? would you make a good boss? why? whats your ideal job? do you work better alone or with a team? why is that? do you work well under pressure? what makes your job worth getting up for? who do you use as references? what would they say about you? do you consider yourself a hard worker? based on what facts? on average how many hours do you work in a given week? does your job make you feel proud? in your life's priorities where does your career fall? what event in your life would you like to permanently forget? whats the most regrettable thing you have done to someone? what is your most embarrassing moment in life? whats the dumbest argument you have ever had? who started it? whats the greatest personal challenge you have ever faced? how did it change you? have you ever got into a physical fight? who started it? why? whats your worst dream? what is its interpretation? whats your favourite daydream in recent years? whats your greatest personal strength? how has it helped you in life? what personal quality would you like to improve the most? who has had the greatest positive impact in your life? what lessons have you learnt the hard way? do you tend to learn after one mistake or after many mistakes? think back five years from today? how did you think your life would have been today? how is it differnet from what you pictured? what is the life you have pictured five years from now? what is the life you have pictured one year from now? what is the life you have pictured ten years from now? have you ever been arrested? why? name one things that you are constantly putting off? why? who do you turn to when you are sad, angry, lonely or upset? how well do you keep secrets? has anyone told you look like a celebrity? why? whats your greatest insecurity? whats your greatest fear? do you plan ahead or take one day at a time? do you consider yourself in shape? what book do you read? what was the last movie you saw or rented? whats your favourite food? whats your favourite tv show? whats your favourite place to travel? whats your favourite sport? whats your favourite outfit? how do you relax? whats your favourite restaurant? whats your favourite movie of all time? whats your favourite season? why? do you tend to focus more on the past, present or the future? what is your worst habit? how can you stop it? how often do you balance your checkbook? whats the first thing you do when you wake up? what five words would you use to describe yourself? can you give an example of how you possess each charachterstic? do you tend to blame others for your problems? do you believe in luck? do you consider yourself to be lucky? do you fear death? is comprise hard for you? why? what talents you have that would surprise me? how can someone tell if you are happy? how can they tell if you are sad? what types of people tend to be attracted to you? whats one thing you cant say NO to? what do you constantly worry about? how do you define happiness? who knows you better than anyone? who would you die for? when are you totally at peace? what setting are you most comfortable in? how do you deal with stress? what triggers it? are you pro choice or pro life? do you consider yourself financially stable? are you a morning or a night person? what are your hobbies? how patient are you? give an example? do you tend to exaggerate things? are you a good listener? how good is your sense of direction? how often do you compliment people? how often do you watch sports? do you act your age? how gullible are you? do you keep a diary? how are your sleeping habits? in heated arguments do you walk away or keep it until you have the last word? what do you wear to sleep in? how often do you read the newspapers or watch the news? what style of underwear do you wear? how would you descibe your dream house? how would you describe your dream wedding? do you fear committment? what five words describe your perfect mate? whats the biggest turn on for you? whats your most sensitive body part? how do you define intimacy? who taught you about the 'birds' and the 'bees'? how old were you? do you prefer to make the first move or have it made on you? do you watch porno? what are your secret desires? whats the longest you have gone without sex? how many times you have sex a week? whats the most sensual thing someone has done to you? how do you set the mood? judging from a scale of 1-10 how experienced are you? what percentage of people do you think are virgins? when you meet someone first do you wonder what they are like in bed? what makes you feel sexy? do you think you are sexy when you naked?
read a good book play interesting video games practice meditation take enough rest exercise regularly eat a good breakfast of carbo, proteins, veggies, fruits think positive thoughts be a continual learner lay off the alcohol break and change your routines stop watching too much of television work with numbers, use less calculator recall old memories make beautiful music, learn an instrument learn a new language memorize a song walk around blindfolded decide to learn a new word every day- expand your vocabulary
Follow your natural rhythms. A lot of the time I resent working is because I’m trying to force myself to do something I don’t feel like doing. Naturally there will always be some things you’re not crazy about doing (like cleaning the toilet). But how often do you force yourself to work more, when you really want to relax? When you force yourself to work when you’ve promised yourself a break, you’ll likely just end up distracting yourself with other things and put off working. Then you get stressed and end up resenting work. Instead, follow your natural rhythms. When you feel like working, work. When you don’t, don’t. Don’t over complicate things.
Do, don’t think. I’m going to stay true to this point and not think about writing something elaborate. Just do, stop thinking about it. Fail, make corrections later.
Don’t put sugar in your tank. You wouldn’t put sugar in your gas tank right? It doesn’t make much sense to fill your body up with unhealthy fuel either. If you don’t have the energy to get the work you need to done, work will feel forced.
Remove hidden roadblocks. What’s making you avoid working? What’s making your work seem like drudgery rather than joyful? It might have something to do with your beliefs about yourself. Maybe you believe you’re not good enough, smart enough or don’t have enough experience. Question your beliefs about what you can an can’t do.
Only do your best. Work can easily become a chore when you’re trying to constantly be perfect. The truth is, some of your ideas might not be so great. Others will be mind blowing. If you can accept that and just do your best, you stop judging yourself. Guess what it feels like when you’re no longer picking over everything you do with a fine toothed comb? It feels extremely liberating. It feels like you can actually enjoy your experience, rather than worrying about how everything is going to turn out. That is working effortlessly.
Act from your gut. When you think you have a great idea, believe it. Follow it. Chase it until you’re out of breath and can barely hold yourself up. Because if you don’t trust yourself, you’ll regret it later. The best way to live is to follow your intuition and trust life. If nothing else, trust yourself. Because if you can’t trust yourself, how can you trust your mistrust? That’s not very smart is it?
Focus on what matters. Our minds are constantly pulling us in different directions. We have to wash the cat, buy more apple cinnamon oatmeal, finish writing that resignation letter to your no-longer-boss at your dead-end job, and all sorts of other things. We have a tendency to follow what’s urgent instead of what’s important. In order to get the important things done, we have to be ruthless at removing distractions. If it takes bringing a laptop (or notepad) to a cafe to write your grandiose novel, then do that. Avoid the vacuum of minutiae urgency. Remove all distractions so you can focus on the important things. I would much rather spend 4 hours working on an important project, then 4 hours spinning my wheels and scratching my head trying to figure out what I did today.
Refuse to do what you don’t want to do. I often avoid working because I’m trying to do things I think I “should do.” I think I should read more because it will make me smarter. I think I should buy new clothes because it will make me cooler. I think I should work on this project because it will be good for my resume. Forget what you think you should do (except maybe… paying your rent). Do what you want to do. Other people will understand. In fact, they’ll probably envy you.
ask questions sequentially, logically, imaginatively to get to the YES of signing the deal
Notes on Happines, Self Discipline
TO be Happy you must discipline your mind and practise Self-Discipline, not force and discipline imposed by others and external environments.
Discipline yourself to what you should do and when you should do. It means self-mastery, self-control, self-direction. Every time you
practice discipline your self-esteem goes up. Every thing in life is a test- every day, every hour, every minute, so you have to keep
on passing the test by keeping your mind onto that test or task and then moving onto the next one.
You must practise the implications of your behaviour for the effect it has short term and long term, and weigh both the sides.
You must repeat actions to discipline your mind and train your mind and cultivate self-discipline and success.
Repetetions is the secret of success.
Anger is a destructive code, you must understand this impulse and take immediate causal action to prevent it.
Prevention is the best action or solution to the problem.
Things go wrong often in Life, so practise Surrender to give up control and be happy. Give up resistence. Use the power of Now.
Surrender makes you feel peaceful, gives up hot feelings, controls anger, hatred, destruction, gives you a clearer vision and picture
of things and what needs to be done. It makes you relaxed and happier and builds relationships and joy.
Learn from nature, how seasons and nature unfolds slowly, do not resist the powers of nature, work your way and goals with it, across it, along it, do not fight it, be peaceful. Nature and Time is the best master.
The cycle of life is cause and effect.
To prevent a certain effect, you have to find the cause, think about why is it happenning, analyse it and take the root action.
Always get to the root of the cause and solve it- talk less and do more.
How to Solve Problems Effectively
learn to spend 80% spend time on the solution and only 20% time on the problem
ask yourself- whats the quickest way I can turn this turnaround?
Remember your brain can handle any kind of problems if you ask it an effective question.
Dont get overwhelm- stay out of overwhelm.
Learn to associate massive pain to overwhelm.
Manage your own state of mind.
Make sure your focus is right- write the problem down, find the solution and focus on it.
Come out with your best solution and take immediate action.
Remember to carry on with the momentum.
If what you are trying is not working, then change your approach.
Keep asking yourself questions- what would happen if I tried this, or tried that?- you have to create more possibilities and options.
Be open to options and possibilities.
Ask others form advice, ask others questions.
get out of your comfort zones and increase your circle of influence.
the purpose of problems is to make you Expand and Grow.
problems are part of life, and it is for them that life goes on.
Ask yourself following questions:
*What's great or good about this?
**What could be great or good about this?
***What's not perfect yet?
****What am I willing to do to make it the way I want it?
*****What am I willing to no longer do to make it the way I want it?
******How can I do necessarily to get this job done and simultaneously enjoy the process?
How to handle Fears
There is fear of failure
There is fear of success
FEAR= FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL
A coward dies a thousand deaths, a courageous man only once!
You have to make better rules and beliefs of success, life, relationships, happiness to handle fear better.
Our own core beliefs generate emotions and thoughts- so if you change your beliefs then it will result in change in how you handle fear.
Make sure you are in control, not controlled by the external environment, otherwise you will always be in fear, problems, turbulence and despair.
The Past doesnot equal the future.
All that matter is what are you going to do RIGHT NOW.
Change your physiology for better, change the way you move, posture, breathing, speech, language.
Get out of comfort zones- do new stuff, different stuff, involve others, ask others for help, do things rapidly, go for a change, use public transport.
Identify your pattern, observe, Change your pattern, break the pattern, create pace and speed.
Ask yourself what can I learn from this and move on.
Decide you will not allow feeling of rejection to decide the outcome, impact, effect of your life.
What will the price you will have to pay if you do not allow the feelings of rejection to be controlled?
What are the benefits and gains you will get if you accept and let go the feeling of rejection?
Also the Past doesnot equal the future.
Rejection does not mean NO, it means NOT YET.
Condition yourself- make yourself feel completely unstoppable, strong, great, powerful- feel it, breathe it, do it, imagine it, think it!!
It is your perception of himself that how everyone, friends, family, relationships, the world responds to you.
Whenever you fail or get rejected make a note of what you have benefitted from it.
========================================================================= i must go out, have fun, exercise, meet people, do an outdoor basic job, stay young, feel good, be in nature, try new jobs, evening, part time job, move around.
i must have more fun, be happier, be with people,enjoy life, enjoy little things of life, enjoy little details, take it easy, slow, live in the present, do things that i want and like and enjoy,be in control.
i must stay grounded, be realistic, emphatetic, use my natural abilities of love, imagination, kindness, compassion, artisitic, musicical, romance.
i must make money to pay for my expenses and livelihood and save for future.
i must be independent, and have my own control, locus and plans, job, work, livelihood, skills, work.
Everything first starts in the imagination, then it is converted and build into reality
There are two ways of getting out of the current work. One way is to take but little interest in what you are doing, aiming merely to do enough with which to "get by." Very soon you will find a way out, because the demand for your services will cease.
The other and better way is by making yourself so useful and efficient in what you are now doing that you will attract the favorable attention of those who have the power to promote you into more responsible work that is more to your liking. It is your privilege to take your choice as to which way you will proceed.
we need not seek opportunity in the distance; that we may find it right where we stand! THIS IS A TRUTH WELL WORTH REMEMBERING!
The most outstanding of these weaknesses which stand between men and women and success are INTOLERANCE, CUPIDITY, GREED, JEALOUSY, SUSPICION, REVENGE, EGOTISM, CONCEIT, THE TENDENCY TO REAP WHERE THEY HAVE NOT SOWN, and the HABIT OF SPENDING MORE THAN THEY EARN.
the "Master Mind," meaning a mind that is developed through the harmonious co-operation of two or more people who ally themselves for the purpose of accomplishing any given task
no man has a chance to enjoy permanent success until he begins to look in a mirror for the real cause of all his mistakes- Napolean Hill
Abhishek- anger, lack of self-awareness, lack of self knowledge, immaturity, time...
Your definite chief aim in life should be selected with deliberate care, and after it has been selected it should be written out and placed where you will see it at least once a day, the psychological effect of which is to impress this purpose upon your subconscious mind so strongly that it accepts that purpose as a pattern or blueprint that will eventually dominate your activities in life and lead you, step by step, toward the attainment of the object back of that purpose.
Be sure that your definite purpose is constructive; that its attainment will bring hardship and misery to no one; that it will bring you peace and prosperity, then apply, to the limit of your understanding, the principle of self-suggestion for the speedy attainment of this purpose.
The principle of psychology through which you can impress your definite chief aim upon your subconscious mind is called Auto-suggestion, or suggestion which you repeatedly make to yourself.
do not "tell" the world what you can do- "show" it!!
any idea you firmly fix in your subconscious mind, by repeated affirmation, automatically becomes a plan or blueprint which an unseen power uses in directing your efforts toward the attainment of the objective named - in the plan.
the principle through which you may fix any idea you choose in your mind is called Auto-suggestion, which simply means a suggestion that you give to your own mind.
"if you want something done well, call on a busy person to do it. busy people are generally the most painstaking and thorough in all they do"
"the one who does not advance shows clearly, by the look on his face, by the posture of his body, by the lack of briskness in his step, by the uncertainty with which he speaks, that he lacks Self-confidence. No one is going to pay much attention to the person who has no confidence in himself"
"you are a human magnet and you are constantly attracting to you people whose characters harmonize with your own"
"the nickels, pennies, dimes which the average person allows to slips through his fingers would if systematically saved and properly put into work eventually brings financial independence"
"quit the habit of buying on credit"
"pay off your debts gradually" and keep your debts low or null.
"the spending habit must be replaced by saving habit for all those who strive for financial independence"
online chatting with summer, mary, kapil chhetri today, after long time...feeling good to communicate and talk and know and learn about each other...want to keep in touch, be friendly, be connected, down to earth, chat, talk, expressive, childish, have fun, laugh.... sharing with each other on current events, what we doing, how we feel, rather than ambitions, success, money, ego, stress, worries, pride being open minded, flexible, sharing, asking questions, interested in each other for long term rather than short term..
In science, read by preference the newest works, in literature the olderst- the classic literature is always modernBulwer-Lytton
To make headway, improve your head.B C Forbes
You Have got to be fool to stop the march of time.PA Renoir
The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.GB Shaw
If you have seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.Newton
Our greatest prayer is patience.Lord Buddha
Power is like alcohol, the faster it is consumed, the more quickly it affects the brain.Lisa Hobbs
The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.Walter Bagehot
Philosophy asks the simple question- what is it all about?A N Whitehead
Science is what you know, philosophy is what you don’t know.Bertrand Russel
Everything comes to him who waits.
Rome was not bulit in a day.
We must learn to walk before we can run.
A man without patience is a lamp without oil.Andres Segovia
Patience is a bitter plant but it has sweet fruit.German Proverb
Adopt the pace of Nature, her secret is Patience.R W Emerson
Beware, the fury of a patient manDryden
Many ideas grow better when transplanted into another mind than in the one where they sprang up.Oliver Holmes
A pessimist is a man who looks both ways before crossing a one way street.Laurence Peter
The pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity, the optimist, the opportunity in everythingLP Jack
A pessimist? A man who thinks everybody as nasty as himself, and hates them for it.GB Shaw
Every cloud has a silver lining.Proverb
When one door shuts, another opens.Proverb
While there is life, there is hope.Proverb
A pessimist sees only the dark side of the clouds, and mopes; a philosopher sees both the sides and shrugs; an optimist doesn’t see the clouds at all- he is walking on them.D O Elynn
It is not best that we should all think alike, it is difference of opinion which makes horse racesMark Twain
The optimist expects his dreams to come true, a pessimist expects his nightmares to.Proverb
To grow old is to pass from passion to compassionAlbert Camus
Music Helps not the toothacheProverb
The musician who plays on the same string is laughed at.Horace
In music one must think with the heart and feel with the brain.George Szell
The future destiny of the child is always the work of the mother.Napoleon
A mother is MOTHER still, the HOLIEST thing aliveColeridge
If you would know the value of Money, go and borrow someBenjamin Franklin
To have enough is good luck, to have more than enough is harmful. This is true of all things, but especially of money.Chuang-Tse
An empty mind is the devil's workshop.Proverb
Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discus people.
When the mind becomes purified like a mirror, knowledge is revealed in it. Care should be therefore taken to purify the mind.Sankaracharya
If you want peace of mind, do not find fault with others. Rather see your own faults.
The memory strenghtens as you lay burdens upon it.D Quincey
Married in haste, we repent at leisure.William Congreve
Marriage is a romance which the hero dies in the first chapter.
Any fool can tell the truth, but it requires a man of some sense to lie well.Samuel Butler
We lie loudest when we lie to ourselves.Eric Hoffer
Life consists not in holding good cards but in playing those you do hold well.Josh Billings
Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning is young.
The greatest gift in life is to keep your mind young.Henry Ford
DO WHATEVER YOU CAN WITH WHAT YOU HAVE WHERE YOU ARETheodre Roosevelt
Actions are ours, their consequences belong to heaven.P Francis
I shall tell you a great secret, my friend. Do not wait for the last judgement; it takes place everyday.Albert Camus
Never give advice unless asked.German Proverb
Anger blows out the lamp of the mind.Ingersoll
Argument is the worst sort of conversation.Jonathan Swift
Strong and bitter words indicate a weak cause.Victor Hugo
A man must not swallow more beliefs than he can digest.Havlock Ellis
Business is other people's money.
Change yourself if you wish to change the world.The Mother
The child is the father of manWordsworth
Children enjoy the present because they have neither a past nor a future.Jean de La Bruyere
Fortune favours the BraveTerrence
The test of courage is not to die but to live.Alfieri
A critic is a man who knows the way but cant drive the car.Kenneth Tynan
Never answer a critic, unless he is right.Bernard Baruch
Critics are the man who have failed in literature and artDisraeli
Throughout my life, I have gained more from my critic friends than from my admirers.M.K. Gandhi
Diplomacy is the art of letting someone else have your way.Daniele Vare
Diplomacy is to do and say the nicest things in the nicest way.Isaac Goldberg
Men are by nature unequal. It is vain therefore to treat them as equal.James Anthony
It is best to own the error. It is sure to add to our strength.Gandhi
To err is human, to blame it on others is politics.Bill Vaughan
The man who makes no mistakes does not usually make anything.Phelps Edward
There is only one thing more painful than learning from experience and that is not learning from experience.
Success goes to your head, failure to your heart.
We walk by faith, not by Sight.
Fame is a Magnifying Glass.
Who is more foolish, the child afraid of the dark or the man afraid of the light?Maurice Freehill
Fear always springs from ignoranceEmerson
The free man is he who does not fear to go to the end of his thought.Leon Blum
One fool can ask more questions in a minute than twelve wise men can answer in an hour.Lenin
Fools make feasts and wise men eat them.Proverb
He who thinks himself wise, O heavens! Is a great fool.Voltaire
Fortunate is he who, born poor or nobody, works gradually upto wealth and consideration and having got them dies before he finds that they were worth not so much trouble.Reade
We make our own fortune and call them FATE.Alroy
Never find your delight in another's misfortune.Publilius Syrus
A friend is one who warns you.
A true friend is one soul in two bodies.Aristotle
Be slow to fall into friendship but when in, continue firm and constant.Soctrates
The best rule of friendship is to keep your heart a little softer than your head.
Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration.Edison
God is not a cosmic bell-boy for whom we can press a button to get things.Harry Emerson
The price of greatness is responsibilityWinston Churchill
Happiness lies first of all in Health.G W Curts
Let your interests be as wide as possible and let your reactions to the things and persons that interests you be as far as possible friendly than hostile.Bertrand Russel
Hatred is self punishment.Housaballon
Home after all is the best place when life begins to wobble,Elizabeth
Hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst.
Blessed is he who has found his work, let his ask no other blessedness.Carlyle
I can not give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure which is: Try to please everybody'Herbert
To get started you must have a destination
Life consists not in holding good cards but in playing those you do hold well.Josh Billings
To climb steep hills requires slow pace at first.Shakespeare
Succes is a journey not a destinationBen Sweetland
If you don’t believe in yourself, chances are nobody else will either
I never had a policy, I have just tried to do my best each and every dayAbraham Lincoln
All our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue themWalt Disney
Friends are those people who know the song to your heart and sing them back when you have forgotten the words
Keep your head and heart in the right direction and you will have to never worry about your feet
Every flower must grow through dirt
Knowledge shows you the way
You must do that you think you cannot doE Roosevelt
The secret of success is to get up early. Work later and strike oilJ D Rockfeller
The goal is to win. It's not about making money. I have many much less risky ways of making money than this (buying Chelsea football club). I don't want to throw my money away, but it's really about having fun and that means success and trophies.Roman Abramovich
For me, businesses are like buses. You stand on a corner and you don't like where the first bus is going? Wait ten minutes and take another. Don't like that one? They'll just keep coming. There's no end to buses or businesses.Shelden Adelson
Early to bed, early to rise, work like hell and advertise.Ted Turner
Life is a game. Money is how we keep score.Ted Turner
Experience comes in two different flavors: your own and the experience of others. Most people can learn from their own experiences quite well, but many people simply ignore the experiences and lessons of others.Donald Trump
If you don't have enemies, you don't have character.Paul Newman
Hard work certainly goes a long way. These days a lot of people work hard, so you have to make sure you work even harder and really dedicate yourself to what you are doing and setting out to achieve.Laxmi Mittal
Everyone experiences tough times, it is a measure of your determination and dedication how you deal with them and how you can come through them.Laxmi Mittal
I am a firm believer in the people. If given the truth, they can be depended upon to meet any national crisis. The great point is to bring them the real facts. Abraham Lincoln
Take risks. Ask big questions. Don't be afraid to make mistakes; if you don't make mistakes, you're not reaching far enough.David Packard
Ultimately, we wanted Nike to be the world's best sports and fitness company. Once you say that, you have a focus. You don't end up making wing tips or sponsoring the next Rolling Stones world tour.Phil Knight
Only those who are asleep make no mistakes.Ingvar Kamprad
I'm the only person I know that's lost a quarter of a billion dollars in one year.... It's very character-building.Steve Jobs
It's better to be a pirate than to join the Navy.Steve Jobs
For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?Steve Jobs
When a man blames others for his failures, it's a good idea to credit others with his successHoward Newton
Success goes to your head, failure to your heart
Fear always springs from ignoranceEmerson
A man of genius has been seldom ruined, but by himselfSamuel Johnson
If you keep your mind sufficiently open, people will throw a lot of rubbish into itWilliam Orton
Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people
Take care of of the pence, and the pounds will take care of themselvesWilliam Lowndes
Many ideas grow better when transplanted into another mind than in the one where they sprang upOliver Holmes
The key to everything is patience, you get the chicken by hatching the egg, not smashing itArnold Glasow
You have got to be a fool to want to stop the march of timeP A Renoir
The reasonable man adapts himself to the world, the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.G B Shaw
Each time we read a seed is sown for the futureJules Renard
Some read to think- these are rare, some to write- these are common, some to talk- and these form the great majorityC C Colton
The man is the richest whose pleasures are the cheapestThoreau
Time is moneyBulwer- Lytton
Ordinary people think merely how they will spend their time, a man of intellect tries to use itSchopenhauer
Truth is strengthened by observation and delay, falsehood by haste and uncertaintyTacitus
Winning is not everything but wanting to win isVince Lombardi
Victories that are easy are cheap. Those only are worth having which come as the result of hard fightingHenry Beecher
The production of wealth is not the workof anyone man, and the acquisition of great fortunes is not possible without the co-operation of multitudes of menPeter Cooper
If you would be wealthy, think of saving as well as of gettingFranklin
The secret of happiness is this- Let your interests be as wide as possible, and let your reactions to the things and persons that interest you be as far as possible friendly rather than hostileBertrand Russel
Happines is a Swedish sunset- it is there for all, but most of us look the other way and lose it.Mark Twain
Happines is like coke- something you get as a by-product in the process of making something else.Aldous Huxley
Happiness depends on what you can give, not what you can getGandhi
Everyone has the will to succeed, only those with the will to prepare do.- Mark Cuban
Be curious. And ... the more you give, the more you get. It’s as simple as that.- Danny Gilbert
Identify and affiliate with creative talent. Brainstorm concepts and analyze constantly, but at the conceptual level, not the spreadsheet level- George Kaiser
Ask lots of questions! And, when and if you get the chance to travel, always look for new ideas to bring home!
Set your goals and never give up!- Michael Ilitch
Have great focus, set high but achievable goals and work EXTREMELY hard at achieving them. Be flexible and ready to adapt to change.- Jorge Perez
Identify where you have or can create an edge over the rest of the world and doing something you enjoy. Then push that advantage to extremes.- Franklin Otis Booth Jr
the worst enemy is the person from your own tradeSpanish Proveb
